Strength?!

How good it feels to know that loneliness is gone, but for how long? There are times when I wish everything would remain with the same sweet and loving feeling but I know that that can never be. The joy of having and the pain of loosing goes hand in hand. It is sort of like the balance of life. If the pain doesn't kill us, it makes us stronger. We learn and we live by that. Sometimes though the same strength we gain is harmful both to us and to others. I just hope that that is not the type of strength which i have. But how do I know. What might be good for me is not always good for another. But then again, it is all a part of the picture in the frame.